Category: bec

20th

Can’t believe it’s been 20+ years with this incredible lady. Of all the things I could say, and have probably said, one of my favorites is paraphrased from thelma ritter in rear window as stella : “When I married [bec], we were both a couple of maladjusted misfits. We are still maladjusted misfits, and we have loved every minute of it.”

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Love’s Philosophy

some Shelley for my sweetheart on her birthday


THE fountains mingle with the river
And the rivers with the ocean,
The winds of heaven mix for ever
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single,
All things by a law divine
In one another’s being mingle—
Why not I with thine?

See the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister-flower would be forgiven
If it disdain’d its brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea—
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?

Austin I

We made the pilgrimage to Austin for Psych Fest and were rapidly enamoured with, well, everything. The first morning saw us in the city center, which was amply endowed with bars and boutiques. Buildings commercial and residential were marvels of stone, concrete, steel and  wood of many hues and grains. Wandering wide-eyed through the metropolis we also experienced a strange and pleasant sensation : sunlight.

Shortly thereafter, imbued with excess vitamin D, we made the journey in our rental out to Saltlick BBQ in the foothills for lunch. I always feel that it’s incumbent upon me to push rental vehicles to breaking point, stressing every moving part, electronic component and spotweld if possible – we managed a bone rattling 120 in a Fiat on the German autobahn once, at great expense to Bec’s nerves and my forearms. We hurtled through splendid scrub on winding rural roads and gaggles of greckles, to be eventually greeted by the sweet smell of burning mesquite gently cooking our quarry.

The feast consumed, we took flight again, keen to make it in time for kick off at Carson Ranch. When arriving at the festival site just north of the airport, we were greeted by the odor of baked earth and greenery.  I was immediately reminded of my time as a ranch hand in Goondiwoondi, Queensland in the mid-nineties. It was a happy period spent largely hacking out boxthorn (Lycium) with a pickaxe along miles of lonely fenceline in 100+ degree heat. I would also tackle and bring down rams in need of having fly-blown flesh cut out by old Chief, an unpleasant experience for all concerned, to say the least. I digress. With these recollections playing through my mind, we strode through security and confidently handed over our exquisite, commemorative weekend passes for inspection, like two bright eyed schoolchildren on excursion.

A quick inspection of the venue revealed a magnificent backdrop from the amphitheatre in the form of the Colorado river and treelined banks. In the field there were many eclectic stalls, far removed from the main stage in the center. An early highlight was Bass Drum of Death. During their set, Bec used some of the more sensitive areas of her body to locate an ant’s nest. A trip to the medic was of little help; a request for anti-histamine was met with the response “come back to us if you stop breathing”. Our evening ended with a masterful performance by the Raveonettes. The heavy lunch, sun and cheap lager got the better of us and we couldn’t stay for BRMC sadly, lest we fall asleep and be trampled underfoot in the moshpit. Day one complete and a resounding success apart from incident with nihilist ants, we drove away and retired to our cheap hotel, happy visions of wonderful music, psychedelia and smoked meats dancing in my head.

sonnet 116

some Shakespeare for my sweetheart on our 15th wedding anniversary


Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

Missive

As I reflect on 14 joyous, adventurous years of marriage to my very beautiful and still remarkable wife, my mind goes back to where it all began (almost). Herewith a missive delivered at our engagement party by the highly gregarious, generally unhinged ‘Stamps’, a dear old Dutch guy at our church back in Brisbane. I miss Stamps.

Many thanks to Mic C for digging this up. A little taste : “The most prominent party, roaring with laughter remains the taxman who does his utmost to raise taxation, not only in cigars and tobacco and cigarets, but also in ale, that most prosperous and popular drink in warm Australia.”

This was one of his better almost completely off-topic speeches; I still see tears of joy rolling down Mic’s cheeks. No doubt John was rolling around outside on the grass in fits of laughter too.